Loyality

For some unexplainable reason I give certain people in various aspects of my life undeniable loyalty even when it’s not reciprocated, perhaps to declare a sense of respect, maintain a status quo of some sort or a subconscious naive effort to receive the slightest sense of mutual respect in return. Naturally, I would think it’s common to have loyalties and staying true and sincere in our actions but it becomes problematic when our priorities are no longer our own but are of those who we aim to gain a sense of respect.

Obsequious behavior, although can be viewed to some as admirable, it’s mostly frowned upon. It’s important for us to stand on our own two feet and walk firmly on the ground in the direction that we desire, constantly yielding so that others have what they need won’t get you anywhere. We can’t live for others; we can’t live with trying to please or gain respect from others because that’s a never-ending game that can never be won.

Essentially trying to make everyone happy ultimately results in neglecting our own needs. Know where your loyalties lie and why those loyalties exist, most important make sure that this allegiance is not one sided, don’t let anyone take advantage of you.